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SAFE T-BIRDS: Help Stop Dating and Domestic Violence

KNOW the Facts About Dating Violence

* shows abusive, controlling or aggressive behavior.
* displays verbal, emotional, physical, or sexual abuse
* monitors your activities and demands explanations for your whereabouts.
* shows extreme jealousy and controls your relationships with others.
* belittles you by criticizing you while alone or in front of others.
* controls the relationship by making decisions for you.
* shows disrespect by not listening or displays lack of interest when you talk.
* physically threatens or hurts you.

KNOW the Statistics

*43% of dating college women report experiencing abusive dating behaviors including physical, sexual, tech, verbal or controlling abuse.
* 29% or one out of three college women say they have been in an abusive dating relationship.
* 57% of college students who report experiencing dating violence said it occurred in college.
* 58% said they do not know how to help someone who is a victim of dating abuse
* 38% of college students say they don鈥檛 know how to get help for themselves if they were a victim of dating violence

Say NO to:

Controlling Behaviors

* Not letting you hang out with friends
* Checking often to find out where you are, who you are with and what you are doing
* Telling you what to wear
* Needing to be with you all the time
* Checking your phone or Facebook

Verbal or Emotional Abuse

* Calling you names
* Jealousy
* Belittling you鈥揷utting you down
* Threatening to hurt you, someone in your family or himself/herself if you don鈥檛 do what he or she wants.

Physical Abuse
* Shoving
* Punching
* Slapping
* Pinching
* Kicking
* Hair Pulling
* Strangling

Get Help NOW-If you or someone you KNOW is a victim of Dating Violence
You have a right to be safe. Communicate your concerns to a friend or parent.

* In an emergency situation, dial 911 to contact local police
* Tell a Counselor or College Administrator
* For students - contact the VP for Student Affairs and Advancement, ext. 319
* Talk to a reliable friend who can help you with the next steps to report and seek assistance

Tips for Ending an Abusive Dating Relationship

* Create a safety plan, like where you can go if you are in danger.
* Make sure you have a working cell phone handy in case you need to call for help.
* Create a secret code with people you trust. That way, if you are with your partner, you can get help without having to say you need help.
* If you're breaking up with someone you see at your high school or college, you can get help from a guidance counselor, advisor, teacher, school nurse, dean's office, or principal. You also might be able to change your class schedules or even transfer to another school.
* If you have a job, talk to someone you trust at work. Your human resources department or employee assistance program (EAP) may be able to help.
* Try to avoid walking or riding alone.
* Be smart about technology. Don't share your passwords. Don't post your schedule on Facebook, and keep your settings private.
* If you are ending a long-term or live-in dating relationship, you may want to read our section on domestic and intimate partner violence.

Information Provided By

* Advice, support and information for victims of crime.
* National Youth Advisory Board providing support and guidance by text, phone or online chat.
* information for women of all ages.

The SAFE T-BIRDS program is 蝌蚪窝视频's prevention and education efforts to help stop relationship violence in support of title IX, the Violence Against Women Reauthorization Act, the SaVE Act and Clery Act.